Women Are from Venus

When women use the word “romance,” they’re usually referring to love. When men use the word “romance,” they’re often referring
to sex. (So be careful! The word “romance” can be slippery.)


Sales figures show that women tend to prefer pink and white and pastel colors for lingerie, while men prefer to see women in black and red. 


• Women: Ask yourself if you’re dressing to please him or yourself.
• Men: Ask yourself if the goal of your lingerie gift is to please her or please yourself.


• Women: Stop nagging. Even if you’re right. (Especially if you’re
right!) several women have told me that nagging and complaining are the quickest ways to drive a man into a resentful, and far from romantic silence.


• Men: Stop judging. Stop correcting. Stop lecturing. She doesn’t need it and doesn’t want it. You’re not her father or teacher, you’re her lover.


Men and women tend to be “thermally incompatible.” It is a biological fact that at “room temperature,” most women are chilly and most men are warm.