Let's start with some of the basic concepts everybody should know...
Do you know the difference between the “urgent” and the “important”? (notice the 'the')
Mixing them up causes us to lose sight of our true priorities and the really important things in our lives.
The urgent is what demands your attention right now: deadlines, details, and short-term priorities. It may be what’s important to you, but more often it reflects the priorities of others.
The important is what reflects your priorities and values. It is more long-term in nature and therefore easier to defer.
Love is important, car troubles are urgent. Beware of the urgent eclipsing the important in your life!

